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All of us have experienced it at one time or another. We come home from a first date, swimming in euphoria, sure that we've just spent the first night of the rest of our lives with our true soul mate. Mr. or Miss Destiny. The One. And then, we never hear from them again.

As we sit by the phone, waiting for that second date call (or call-back) we first begin to doubt the efficiency of the phone company. Then we start to wonder if Mr./Miss Right had to suddenly leave the country in the middle of the night, without a chance to call. Then, realization hits. You're not going to hear from them, and you wonder how you could have had such a magical experience, while they, clearly, were unimpressed.

Attractive women know within SECONDS of seeing and/or interacting with you if you're a sexually aware, confident man. And they make the UNCONSCIOUS decision of whether or not you're a possible sexual partner within a maximum of a few minutes of interacting with you. These unconscious decisions are made mostly on the basis of body language and voice tone.

And since we know that *Attraction Isn't A Choice*, we can generalize the following:

1. If you don't know what types of body language communicate that you're one of these *sexy beast* guys, you're probably not doing the right things *by accident*.

2. The words you say actually don't matter much. What matters is HOW you say them, both with your voice and with your body language.
FRIEND... a person in your acquaintance who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing.

INDIFFERENCE... a woman's feeling towards a man, which is interpreted by the man to be *playing hard to get*.

INTERESTING... a word a man uses to describe a woman who lets him do all the talking.

IRRITATING HABIT... what the endearing little qualities that initially attract two people to each other turn into after a few months together.

LAW OF RELATIVITY... how attractive a given person appears to be is directly proportionate to how unattractive your date is.

NYMPHOMANIAC... a man's term for a woman who wants to have sex more often than he does.

SOBER... condition in which it is almost impossible to fall in love.
Compose your picture in the viewfinder. If you don't have the ability to crop your picture, then be aware before you snap the picture. Center the subject, you may even want to try a diagonal for a dramatic effect.

To further enhance your photo, and if you have some basic computer skills, then you may want to look into a photo-editing program. There are several on the market that are easy to use and cost anywhere from $30.00 to $100.00. Another option is having your photo professionally retouched. With some simple adjustments a good photo can be transformed into a great photo - even super models have their photos retouched!
The most important part of a good picture is PLANNING AHEAD! and worth it, after all a successful online dating experience can lead to some life changing and wonderful adventures.